first star that i saw this evening,

why haven't you answered in so long

star light, star bright

first the first wish, i know you ignored.

the second, you pretended to hear

and my third you dismissed with a scoff.

up until this current run, when we would meet, 

i would walk away happy, and you,

you would slowly slide away 

with soothing accomplishment 

and the excitement of tomorrow's meeting.

Neither of us needed a shooting-star, 

now it is all that keeps me looking to the skies.

The blog is suffereing a little as of late as my focus is placed towards a few chapters of an attempt at a book and me trying to get a head start on the summer papers. If there is anything new to post, then it will be posted, but I am trying to avoid spending too much more time in front of the computer than necesary for the writing.

The blog, over the past three to four months, has almost turned into the memories of past "encuentros" and "caminos". When the things which were the anchor to many things rested in an assumed future, and that achor disappears, there is a sudden feeling of being completely lost in the present and future and only the security of the past moments are capable of creating a feeling that does not border a complete loss of control. It is that moment when sadness is the only secure emotion, that one can really understand what gave a true state of happiness, and that the sadness is the tremendous shadow that is left from what lent that state. The thing is, there are other things that lend a light to cast a new shadow, but you have to be willing to step out into that new light, or that new sun. Is that a willingness to give-up on an old happiness, just in hope of the new light, another which could burn or turn its focus in another direction? A lack of that willingness may be the piece that hampers the beginning of the duel, the beginning of the process of recuperation and acceptance of another light. When is the right time for that next light?

related to a project in school and quite possibly the focus for expanded studies:

distance is the medium that brings peace to the memories of the traumas and the experiences that were the parents to those memories. no matter the way that distance is achieved, is seems a necessary in order that the repetition or cycle of trauma can be cut. although one necessary piece, there are many others that need to be in place so that the battle between the necessity to leave the moment behind, and the desire not to forget can occur. only with that battle, can there be the necessary, and unwanted, mental casualties that bring about the peace, or if not casualties, possibly a quarantine of certain trauma and their associated feelings.

the current project looks into the idea of distance and tries to describe the varying types of distance that are used in the process of breaking the cycle of trauma so that the past is neither repeated nor re-experienced internally: the view, with the memory, remains, but the possibility to return and experience the trauma is left behind.

I want someone who knows that I am not perfect, but believes that I am anyway.

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I cannot say that I have never run from anything in the past, even with my heard-headed nature, but I can see with a certain clarity - even during the events themselves - that I am running from something at the current moment. Even with my mind blurred with days of intense sessions and long runs, so as not to great the thing from which I run, I can see what it is that I am avoiding. It moves like a puma in the jungle, so black it nears purple and morphs into the shape of everything that embodies it. It is an ocean, it is everything that floats quietly on the tips of small waves, everything that looms in the agression of stormy seas. They are friends, they are awkwardly shared friends, they others held in common. Today and yesterday, I run from the ocean of reminders. Tomorrow, I run again.

Bouillon Chartier

just a quick note on one of the restaurants worth noting from the culinary and drunken trip to france. i had a lunch with very good company, to whom i am indebted, in the place seen in the picture on the side and in bold above. they take your order on the fly, writing your entire order in illegible scratch on the paper tablecloth replaced on each table, and sum everything on the same tablecloth after you have finished your meal just before finding a new home for the dead and thinly sliced tree. the prices, especially for france, are quite inexpensive and the food is quite good; though that is not to say that there were not others that were better.

Bouillon Chartier

March 28th 2007
and 
March 18th 2010

sandcastles

(a song that i wrote about myself - though I didn't realize that it was autobiographical at the time - during the trip to spain in 2002-2003, in cooperation with josh colpitts. funny how things seem to apply to various facets of one's life)

she's got nothing on her feet but her pretty pink shoes

a whole in all her pockets, and nothing left to lose.

she´s jumped a train to nowhere and can't wait to see

that no one's there waiting, and there never will be.

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

she smiles to the sun, then cries herself to sleep.

she´s got a worm inside her sole, and it's digging too deep.

well her heart's still pumping blood, like the day she was born,

but the skin she wears outside, is jagged and torn.

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

a paper airplane to the coast, she road to find,

the castle in the sand, that she used to climb.

a paper airplane to the coast, she road to find,

the castle in the sand, that she used to climb.

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

she climbs sandcastles, nearing the sky

someone so damn low, should never climb so high

almost forgotten

I cannot remember your squint after a long fit of laughter

nor the touch of your hand as we sit, awed by the fire.

The color in your eyes has sunk deep into an old photo,

and the corners of the photo, reminders of your forgotten your smile.

Reminders of the days, when I awake with your warmth.

Gone are the days, when we occupied my spaces,

warmth now disappeared from each corner and each nook.

There is, but one place where you remain sharp and alive;

one place where your hands still pull at my heart.

But gone are the days, when I awake to your warmth.

As I return for a dream between morning and snooze,

15 minutes to recover a loss that should never have been.

Behind a fountain your figures disappear into shadows

and the figures in silhouette grow closer to one .

You return to speak, awaited words also seem to arrive,

slowly and with clarity the unknown seemingly released.

Then just when you are ready to tell me your truths…

15 minutes are gone and your voice turns to what wakes me.

Also gone are those days, when I awake to your warmth.

damn memories.
goddamn memories.
they are so lovely;
they are the company in absence.
they are so warm;
they are the fires that keeps us warm in the cold.
they are so hot;
they are the fires that burn us.
damn memories.
goddamn memories.
i love them

look of sincerity

funeral lesson

i remember having gone to a funeral with my mother when i was rather young, well before my tenth birthday. we walked up to the casket and my mother leaned slightly to see what it was that remained of her memory of someone. i could not remember ever having met the man who previously occupied the body that was laid just slightly below eye level, palid and foreign. the experience, as innocent and natural as it was, turned to some kind of trauma in the moments between the funeral parlor and the boundary of my bedroom. as i tried to sleep that night floating on the surface of the waterbed, my little evening sea, the face of the stranger, with his eyes closed and skin the color of ghost, spun slowly in my waking and sleeping vision, each meeting the back of my eye-lids. to escape, i tried wedging myself between the hardside of the bed and the matress, completely under the protective shield of sheets, but in the end, the only thing that would remove the image from my head was the truth of soothing words, "nothing has happened, you will be fine honey."

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i have had many sleepless nights since then, and many of those many have been over the past three weeks. i have tried to hide under the covers. i have searched for the words to be softly spoken close to my ears, to ease my fears and bring me to a good night's sleep. hiding beneath the covers hasn't helped; to face things so much more frightening than the face of the dead man, the covers and sheets must be ripped from the bed.

.

from an empty body to an empty seat.

just learned today, that not only is it really counter to any leaning you may do on your terrace or any surrounding area of your home, but that also, at least in madrid it, is illegal to feet the pigeons. here is me doing my part recording the destructive practice of pigeon feeding...

thankfully i wasn´t forced to break the law for this shot...

the first step in the experience that has brought many great - and difficult - moments, we had to make a trip to l.a. to visit the spanish consulate. neither one of us was completely prepared to deal with the varying regulation of the consulates and we returned to the house of a friend with empty hands and very heavy minds, burdoned by the thought of not getting the paperwork completed in time. during our stay there, papa lehr brought us out for a drink on the pier in san clamente. the following is a series of surf photos taken while we watched the sun set over the side of the pier towards san juan capestrano.














































at least he was able to swim.

not so many minutes to hours ago, my parents returned to their hotel after a pizza dinner, at what used to be chez jimi, and i shortly there after headed to the nouveau chez jimi for a few drinks and then a night slowly towards the northeast before the final southwest. i had never heard of liniers, the argentine cartoonist. just above the keyrack, on the wall of what was the home of the uraguayan musician, jorge drexler, is a drawing by this artist helping to protect the keys from any king of danger. here is one of the pics of the ghosts that guard the keys.

my father and in the reina sofía,

a place where guérnica seems to

bring tears for some, but not always

for the same reasons.

self-portrait.

22 feb 2010

I don't want to clean

.

I have cleaned, again and again,

each part of my external eye

with the sweet saline of a cry

only to see it will need to be cleaned

again.

I have also cleaned, with the same

frequency, the part seen through my eye.

Wet, drenched, and sopping; with its trouble

it slugs, burdened, through my new, internal sea.

Tell me that my eyes are not

the only to see what looms ahead,

nor what weighs, like a plow, behind.

Were these tears not caused by the future,

forged in the fires of past mistakes?

My heart begs that neither is too true,

that neither is our present.

It would have made much more sense to get less sleep during the day today so that I wouldn't be up at this point in the night writing this, the reflection on the past few hours of sleeplessness and thought. S just came back from the trip she took to London with the students and the teachers from the Real Colegio Alfonso el XII, where she works as a language auxiliary teaching both students and teachers the wonders of the modern English language. The truth is that we don't get to see nearly as much of each other as we used to, being that we lived in the same apartment in Boulder for over a year. I cannot say that it has really been much for how we are relating to eachother lately. I am losing touch with the girl that I love, slowly, with each day that I spend in a tiny bed in Madrid and that she spends in a tiny bed in San Lorenzo de El Escorial.



This was the answer I had, close the book that I had started so long ago. I was hooked on the memory of the time that past between Agust of 2002 and May of 2003, and it seemed as if everything had pointed to my finally being able to walk through the door, with S, closing it behind me and leaving all the insecurities of that period behind. Now, I am forced to ask myself whether I have made a mistake and let someone that means so much to me get too far away. Her words are very reassuring, they give me hope: her actions are cause for concern, they seemed to have cooled with the Spanish air. 5 months here and five months remain. They have the possibility of being five months of near bliss, spending time with my love, but they too, have the possibility of being a natural pergatory. I do not believe, or at least do not want to believe that the latter is a true possibility.



One phrase, to (was to) be uttered in a restaurant in Rome, (was to be) really, the asnwer.

The building and nearly the perspective of which I wrote yesteday. Shannon's family came to visit her here in Madrid so we spent a good portion of the time walking through the center of Madrid as well as with other side trips.

This picture was taken durin the trip that we took to Granada, during the sunrise one of the first mornings we spent there.

The memory is a funny thing, what it wants to remember and what it wants to forget. Pictures do there best to force the memory into an accurate rememberance. They also help place those memories in a more organized fashion in the imagined brain, the frame, structure and rooms where related memories are held and the halls between them.

(please note the images are property of the author)